YWCA Central Massachusetts Statement: Domestic Violence Related Murders in Worcester

We are at once heartbroken and recommitted to do all that we can as we grieve the domestic violence related death and near fatality of members our communities in Gardner and Worcester. This type of violence has an impact on the family, friends and community of those involved. We are all responsible for one another. As our society has been grappling with the challenges of COVID-19 and racial violence, victims of domestic violence have experienced increased isolation, violence and danger.

These tragic events occurring in both public and private spaces remind us that abuse can happen anywhere and to anyone. Although services for survivors of domestic violence continue to be offered, it is not always safe for them to reach out. It will take all of us: friends, family members, neighbors, faith leaders and employers. It is important for survivors to know that they are believed and supported. It is incumbent that we take action when someone comes to us for help.

That action can be offering a listening ear, referring them to a helpline, buying diapers or food, paying attention to things that may not look or sound right, but mostly, believing survivors. Taking a life of a partner, a loved one, is the ultimate act of cowardice and control. We urge people who are concerned about their own behavior to also reach out for help. The YWCA remains committed to addressing the societal factors that put communities and individuals at risk. We invite the community to join us in this work and commitment.

We’re here to help: Call our 24-hour helpline at 1-508-755-9030 or visit ywcahelp.com