In one of our recent financial literacy workshops, Jessica* bravely shared the severity of the financial abuse she was enduring at the hands of her husband.

Though he worked full-time and earned a substantial income, he refused to provide adequate funds for their household. He even went so far as to lock the refrigerator—stocked with fresh foods only he could access—leaving Jessica and their children to survive on packaged items that didn’t require refrigeration. Nutritious meals were out of reach.

Despite the appearance of financial stability, Jessica was deprived of basic necessities. Because of their marital status and shared household income, she was deemed ineligible for food stamps. Yet she was living in food insecurity.

Recognizing the urgency of her situation, our YWCA Advocate reached out to the Domestic Violence Liaison at the Department of Transitional Assistance (DTA). Together, they were able to secure emergency food stamp benefits for Jessica—while protecting her confidentiality.

That moment was transformative. For the first time in a long while, she could buy fresh fruits and vegetables for her children.

From there, the Advocate helped Jessica build a monthly budget that prioritized nutritious food options. They also created a savings plan, step by step, to help her move out of the marital home and eventually file for divorce. Slowly, a path toward freedom and financial independence began to take shape.

At YWCA, we believe every survivor deserves the chance to reclaim their future.

If you or someone you know is experiencing abuse, we’re here to help. You are not alone. Call our 24-hour helpline at 508-755-9030 or visit our 24-hour chatline at ywcahelp.com.

*Name changed to protect identity.